I had no idea that my wife had already talked to a tucson bankruptcy lawyer. She said that all she wanted to do was prepare for the possibility that we might need to file for bankruptcy. She already consulted with the lawyer about what the process would involved. I feel like she is more prepared than I am, and she is ready to accept the fact that bankruptcy might be in our future. I never want to look the other way, but I feel like a failure for not being able to keep up with the expenses of my family. I am just happy that the option is there, but it will be my last resort. After all, I do not think that anyone wants to say that they filed bankruptcy in their lifetime, but it might just be the lifesaver that comes my way and it might be the only thing that can help me out.